Have Fun Again

After you and your spouse have reconciled, it is time to have fun again and to rebuild your marriage.    

Good and bad habits are responsible for a withering marriage. After the honeymoon, the reality of looking after the kids, household chores and putting food on the table takes up an enormous amount of energy and commitment. These tasks are of course a necessity but something is missing. Where is the fun ?  

That something is the time that needs to be set aside for you and your partner to have fun and to enhance the relationship bond. You may feel that your marriage is not very exciting or even worse, one or both of you may have become indifferent or are having an affair. If you miss the feelings of being "in love" and are longing to be fulfilled in your marriage, you need a marriage makeover

Daily Details - Is it hurting your marriage ?

The practical details of everyday life does require ongoing maintenance, but so does your marriage. Many couples settle for a life of boredom and routine. Some of the excuses couples have for not spending time together include :

There is too much to do around the house.
Extra time is for family.
Our schedules don't allow us to go out.
We don't have money for restaurants/entertainment.

It does not matter what your excuses are, if you don't spend time together, your marriage will inevitably suffer. Over time your marriage bond will deteriorate until you wake up one day wondering what happened. The answer to that is - nothing - literally nothing. 

It is difficult to believe that there was a time in which you could not stand being apart from one another. Now it is all about looking after the kids, grocery store specials, washing etc.

What can you do?

Step 1 : Prioritize Your Marriage. 

Many couples complain that they just have too many responsibilities between home and work, to do things as a couple. You may have to work overtime to keep up with all your work or you may have to look after sick parents. This is important but so is your marriage. You have to commit to allow some quality time for your marriage. Do not wait for a time when your life will be less busy or less demanding - do it now.

Step 2 : Get the Support Of Your Spouse.  

Once you have decided that you would like to have fun again, you need to get your spouse involved. It may sound stupid - who does not want to have fun ? It is necessary for you to sit down as a couple and determine how you ended up in this situation so as to not fall into those traps again. After you have identified the areas that are taking precedence over your marriage, you can commit to scheduling time together again as a couple.

Step 3 : Better Time Management.  

The reality is that there will always be chores to do, but you have to set time aside to enjoy each other. If you use a calendar to keep track of appointments, book time now for you and your spouse.

Step 4 : Be Creative.

If going out for dinner is not within your budget, plan a themed-dinner and do the preparation and shopping together. If your schedules collide, take advantage of whatever time you do have together and do something - lunch during work or even a quick coffee at a shop before starting your day.

Get back the fun that you use to have.

 

 

 

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